The Blue Fairy...

Due to an experience I had to put this one up immediately and it will be added to in the very near future.

Good people can suffer from mental illnesses. This does not make them bad people, but people who cannot control what they do. These people do not deserve and will not get threefold as they are not malicious and do not control what they do.

If someone picks on you or is nasty, before you think it is spite, please try to imagine, or investigate what is going on in their private life. If they are young, are they getting abused at home and taking their frustrations out on the wrong people? Is an older person taking their frustrations out on people because they were abused when they were younger? There are very few truely "evil" people in this world. There are a lot of people who enjoy doing evil things for their own pleasure, who were not born "evil" and have no problems in their past. Some people do nasty things subconciously, not realising what they are doing, but, because of something in their past they do it over and over again.

Should you feel sorry for someone who beats you and degrades you... firstly... get the hell away! Then you can evaluate... and even if you think they do have underlying issues... don't go back! When you get away... or even are still there... and evaluate someone, you can often start feeling sorry for them and making excuses for what they've done... but they are like that for a reason, and no matter how much you think you can change them, they need professional help, and need to be able to acknowledge it. "Oh I'm sorry it'll never happen again" is not a reasonable answer. To help them you need to help yourself, get away and make them realise what they have done. No magic, no spells, it'll come naturally. You'll help them more by walking away than standing with them.

Some people have issues about being loud and confident... they're probably not as confident as you think and probably have underlying issues they'd never admit to. A bully will always pick on someone to feel better than themselves as they do not feel that their self is worth while.

ANYONE who makes you feel bad whether it be a bully a partner friend or family... take a step back please, its not worth your sanity to rescue another