The Blue Fairy...

I have met a lovely group of people recently who have gone through a tragedy, but with such dignity and unity that it is rather humbling.

Through here people often ask me why they never get any signs from loved ones that have passed on.  Now, I am not preaching, but the following is what I personally believe, so feel free to take what you wish, and disgard the rest...

I believe that "up there" time does not exist. Here, time is like a straight line, there is a beginning and an end, one occurance after another. But, "up there" time is more like a circle, with no end and no beginning, with no seconds, minutes or hours, existance is just existance. Like our mere mortal brains cannot possibly comtemplate the fact that the universe is never ending, how could we possibly even understand how time could not exist, it is beyond mathematics and science.

As there is no time, everything happens "now", the passed one can see everything that they want, what was, what is, and what will be.

I also believe that "up there", it is perfect. There is no negativity, therefore there is no feeling of missing somebody, and no sadness nor anger.When we return to our home, we leave all negativity on Earth. Everyone that has ever done us wrong, we realise that it happened for a reason, usually it happened to teach us and make us evolve to a higher level. (I believe we are here to learn) Because there is no negativity, our loved ones do not miss us, this doesn't mean they don't love us, but as time does not exist, they know that we will be there in the blink of an eye, and they know that in the end, when the time is right, everything will work out and we shall all be ok.

Although you may not be able to see or hear them, they can see and hear you and you can talk to them as they will listen. People are usually so busy, even whilst watching TV the mind is focused on the TV, so we often do not see the little signs out of the corner of our eye... the shadow that moves, the feather that falls from nowhere... but we will see them again, and they really are always with us...